Usage Suggestions

* Share with friends and relatives
* Practice with your relationship partner or spouse
* Parenting classes
* Workshops for individuals and couples
* Coworkers

Side 1 Wording:
Use Positive Character Quality Language!
The light of a good character is brighter than the light of the sun.

Make your acknowledgements of others deeper, more specific, and sincere by including a character quality. This practice encourages character growth, builds relationships, and brings happiness to you both. Enhance your communications with easy statements, such as:

• Thank you for being [helpful, flexible, truthful…].
• I appreciate your [courage, respect, faithfulness…].
• I love how [accepting, enthusiastic, encouraging…] you are!

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Side 2 Wording:

Character Qualities
acceptance • assertiveness • beauty
caring • chastity • commitment
compassion • confidence
contentment • cooperation • courage
courtesy • creativity • detachment
discernment • encouragement
enthusiasm • equality • excellence
faithfulness • flexibility • forgiveness
friendliness • generosity • gentleness
helpfulness • honesty • humility
idealism • integrity • joyfulness
justice • kindness • love • loyalty
mercy • moderation • patience
peacefulness • perseverance • purity
purposefulness • resilience • respect
responsibility • self-discipline
service • sincerity • spirituality
strength • tactfulness • thankfulness
thoughtfulness • trustworthiness
truthfulness • unity • wisdom


Do you want to know more about these qualities?
Check out our book for married couples,
Pure Gold: Encouraging Character Qualities in Marriage and our book for unmarried individuals,
Can We Dance? Learning the Steps for a Fulfilling Relationship!