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marriages—the foundation of a prosperous, unified world
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Volume 3, Issue 8 |
© 2006
Marriage Transformation LLC
Project Message:
Choosing a Partner
The Reading Room
Smart Marriages Talks
by John Van Epp
Character Quality of the Month: Purposefulness
Top 10 Character Qualities
for a Successful Marriage
Upcoming
Marriage Transformation Workshops
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The Marriage Transformation Project is a global
social and economic development project committed to relationship
and marriage education and skill building for people at
all stages of relationships. In addition to our own independent work
in developing materials, with a strong focus on character and communications,
we draw on many sources. These include the work of marriage researchers, psychologists, philosophers, traditional wisdom, authors, and spiritual sources. These spiritual sources include the following world's religions: Baha'i Faith,
Buddhism, Christianity, Hinduism, Islam, and Judaism.
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We welcome new subscribers! Please share! A Marriage Transformation Message from Susanne Alexander and Craig Farnsworth, Relationship Coaches and Marriage Educators Dear Friends and Colleagues: Those of you who know our work know that we value taking responsibility in choosing a partner and ensuring you are a good match together. We encourage mindfulness along with considering feelings, and conscious observation of each other's character qualities. We want people to be purposeful in the quest for a great mate (See the Character Quality of the Month below), and not leave all the work up to random chance and instant decision-making. Marriage therapist and educator John Van Epp, Ph.D. has just released his first book that is very much in line with this philosophy: How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk. (Note: The intent of the book is determining if someone is suitable or unsuitable for marrying, not about learning to attack someone else by calling them a "jerk".) This book is also a good mate with our books, Can We Dance? Learning the Steps for a Fulfilling Relationship for individuals and Marriage Can Be Forever--Preparation Counts!. Van Epp makes many key points that are valuable for individuals to keep in mind:
Loving greetings,
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How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk This book is practical, research and experienced-based, and has effective stories from Van Epp's practice. This is an excellent book to walk you through some of the pitfalls in the way of having a solid marriage. It's especially helpful in helping readers understand why slowing down romances aids in making good partner choices. McGraw Hill; ISBN 0071472657, Hardcover, 288 pages
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Character Quality of the Month: Purposefulness The following excerpt from our latest book, Can We Dance? (page 449), will help you understand how purposefulness assists your relationships and even your marriage: Purposefulness is having meaningful and vital activities and goals in life and relationships and the determination to accomplish them. I am practicing Purposefulness effectively when I:
I need to strengthen Purposefulness when I:
I misuse the strength of Purposefulness when I:
Spiritual Reflection: "A season is set for everything, a time for every experience under heaven…A time for planting and a time for uprooting the planted; …A time for tearing down and a time for building up; A time for weeping and a time for laughing…A time for embracing and a time for shunning embraces; …A time for keeping and a time for discarding; …A time for loving."
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The Singlehood Phenomenon by Tom Rodgers and Beverly Rodgers helps readers understand why people are choosing not to marry and chose marriage instead.
Can We Dance? Learning the Steps for a Fulfilling Relationship represents a revolutionary approach to preparing for, seeking, and being in a relationship. This is a tool for individuals to use in preparing for a character and friendship filled relationship. |
Top 10 Character Qualities for a Successful Marriage
~ Pure Gold: Encouraging Character Qualities in Marriage, Chapter 2 |
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"Pause and listen to your instincts and feelings about your relationship as you engage in activities together. If you are feeling unsafe, overly criticized, or very anxious, it is important to pay attention and not make excuses or justifications for your partner’s poor behavior. Are there behavior patterns that the two of you can discuss and change? Do you need outside assistance? Or, is the behavior an entrenched pattern, and therefore, change is unlikely? Then you will need to consider ending the relationship. Online Reviews Appreciated Please write a testimonial/review to help other online purchasers! We encourage and welcome anyone who has read or used Pure Gold: Encouraging Character Qualities in Marriage and Can We Dance? Learning the Steps for a Fulfilling Relationship to please go to www.chapters.indigo.ca, www.amazon.com, www.barnesandnoble.com, and other online bookstores and write a positive review. Other buyers read and value your comments. Thank you for your support!
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Upcoming Marriage Transformation Workshops Creating a Pure Gold Marriage! Hurry! Less than 2 weeks to register! Married and courting couples are welcome to come learn key communication and character skills that contribute to a happy, lasting marriage. Marriage educators Susanne M. Alexander and Craig A. Farnsworth (Pure Gold: Encouraging Character Qualities in Marriage and Marriage Can Be Forever--Preparation Counts!) invite you to a fun and interactive session that includes couple time to nurture your relationship. For further details, see: http://www.marriagetransformation.com/learning_workshops_upcoming.htm |
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